Tow People Conversing Privately to the Exclusion of a Third

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Tow People Conversing Privately to the Exclusion of a third

This is one of the problems that exist in social gatherings , and it is one of the ways in which the Shaytan divides Muslims and makes some of them hate others . The Prophet explained the rule and the wisdom behind it
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If you are three , then two should not converse privately to the exclusion of a third until you are joined by other people , because this will make him sad
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Reported by al-Bukhaari , see Fat`h al-Baari , 11/83

This also includes three people talking privately to the exclusion of a fourth , and so on

and two people speaking in a lang which the third does not understand , because this is undoubtedly a form of disdain towards the third , and gives the impression that they intend to hurt him , etc

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